The wisdom and kind advice of the man I'm about to commit the rest of my life to.
I get so mad at him sometimes. Sometimes it slowly builds over a few days before I tell him, and sometimes it doesn't take long, but of course, conflict always leads to 'talking it out'. I love talking it out!! My love language is quality time, so that is part of why I love it. Also, because I am not very confrontational, an issue needs to really upset me before I address it; so whenever we have 'a talk', it's about something really important to me and it feels extremely good to get it out.
And THEN, he listens! I love being listened to. And I love the advice (OR apology, solution, heart-sharing....whatever) that follows.
It's just sweet. I have wise parents who did this for me growing up, but now I have a wise person that I'm about to marry who can do it too! Coooool!
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