Monday, April 1, 2013
This is what it looks like to be pregnant & have a toddler. Plenty of time on the couch, with said toddler doing acrobats all over and around me. Maybe a minute or 2 of snuggles now and then.
Being 7 months preg with Babe #2 is really different than with #1.
Know I know some things that maybe I'd heard the first time around, but couldn't really understand/believe until I'd experienced them.
For example:
1. Now I know that I can physically do it...birth a baby.
2. I know that I will fall helplessly in love with my baby
3. I know that an epidural can be a really wonderful thing
When I was 7 months preg with Arthur, I was getting more and more nervous and concerned because The Day was getting closer. I had no idea IF and HOW I would survive birth and motherhood. Early in Arthur's pregnancy, I found comfort knowing that having the baby was still far away, and was even weirdly relieved when he was late being born, because I could put the pain off a little longer... But this time around, I feel relieved that the end is getting near. I'm excited to meet this new little wonder, and for Arthur to be a big brother, and to see how he is like alike and different from the rest of the family!
I know there will be pain when he's born, but just for a relatively short time and it will get better.
We have already adjusted to the parenting lifestyle, so that won't be a big deal. I now know that everything doesn't have to be perfect (& I don't have to know everything) before he is born. There is time later, and we will have to adjust with each phase anyway.
Also this pregnancy has been physically more difficult. I have plans to take placenta pills after the baby is born (I know, gross) and cut back on sugar and I have a hope that in a few short months I will be feeling awesome.
Everything is different this time around. We are in a home that's better suited for us, in a better financial place, both of our jobs are better (I was working full time when pregnant w/ Arthur; now I work part time from my home. Stuart didn't have a job when Arthur was born. It was scary.) Right now we have a significant amount LESS stress in our lives than we did 2 years ago. We are surrounded by wonderful people and family. And I'd venture to say we've grown a little bit older and wiser.
2 more months.
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I love reading your blog! and I can't believe that baby will be here so soon!!!
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